Life is so busy. I think I spend more time these days thinking about working out than actually working out. If I could do a work out in my mind and lose weight I would be one skinny mother f@!%$r. Real talk. That is not how it works though. To get results, you have to put in the work, just like anything else. You want money, you have to go to work. Unless, of course, you are in a certain family that is plastered all over television and social media, then all you have to do is have your sister get naked and everybody gets paid! But I digress.
In the last two weeks I have come up with every excuse in the book as to why I haven't worked out. I have to early tomorrow, I have to write a paper, I have figure out how to embed a video into a webpage (still don't know how), the baby looks so cute, the baby is super cranky, I am super cranky, I want eat tacos, there are clowns stalking high schools, Donald Trump is visiting my town, Hillary Clinton is visiting my town, oh my god, they came back again! I think you get the picture. I was being extremely lazy.
The time for excuses has come to an end. It is time to get back into gear. Turkey Day is right around the corner and after that we enter what I like to call the 39 Days of Gluttony, which commences of Thanksgiving and ends on New Years Day. If you do not prepare for this time of stress eating and financial ruin by settling into a rigorous fitness routine, you could very likely gain 20 pounds or more. I do not need to had more weight and run the risk of type II diabetes to this challenge. It is time to set the small, specific goals. Dig deep, go hard.
There seems to be a bit of confusion when it comes to what the best strategy for weight loss is. “If I try a new diet, will I lose weight rapidly and keep it off?” “What about cutting out certain nutrients, such as carbs, with that make a difference?” I, myself, have never been a proponent of fad dieting. I have found from my own experience they just don’t quite cut it in the long term arena. I feel like unless you have an allergy or an underlying medical condition, there is no reason to cut anything completely out of your diet (When I say diet I am referring to the things you consume on a daily basis as sustenance). There has to be a balance. Included in that balance should be a minimum amount of activity. When I say minimum amount I mean extra things added to your regular routine of daily living. You have to be able to add some exercise to your routine of work/school. Walking from your desk to the company breakroom is not considered extra.
Experts recommend at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of vigorous activity, or a combination of both, every week (Laskowski, 2016). That easily translates into 30 minutes a day of aerobic (cardio) activity. If you want to throw in some strength training, do exercises on the four major muscle groups at least twice a week (Laskowski, 2016). Those are the minimums to maintain your current condition.
So we have grazed over the minimum exercise recommendations and now see why just “dieting” won’t help in the long run. You may be wondering, what else contributes to unsuccessful shedding of pounds? Mostly it is our inability to set realistic goals. The good people at the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics have laid out what will make you successful.
Setting the right kind of goals is important. If you focus on your ultimate goal, losing weight, you’re being too general. Specific goals are easier to meet and add milestones. Making a chart with your goals might be a good way to stay on track. Start out with your ultimate goal, losing weight. Then move on to two or three diet and exercise goals at a time, be specific! For example, “exercise more” does not meet specifics, but “walk five miles every day,” is not only specific, but measurable (WebMD, 2014). However, what if you’re a beginner? Walking five miles a day is something you have to build to, unless you are Superman, you are not going to meet that goal. So an even more specific goal would be, “walk thirty minutes, five days a week” (WebMD, 2014).
According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics (2014), knowing your triggers is another important element to successful weight loss. For example, I am a carb junkie. I am Oprah, “I love bread!” I know if I was left to my own devices I would live on carbs alone. So a trigger for me is the bakery at the grocery store and shopping while I’m hungry. To avoid slipping up and going on a carb binge, I now make sure I have had a snack before I plan a significant grocery shopping excursion.
When you sit down to eat, make sure you fill up. Spend time eating your meal, don’t scarf it down like a soldier in a basic training dining facility. It is suggested that 15 minutes is the amount of time you should spend eating in order to feel full and give your brain time to recognize you have eaten (WebMD, 2014). What you fill up on is important too. Foods with a good amount of fiber (fruits and vegetables) are what you want to fill up on (WebMD, 2014). Smaller plates help smaller portions not look too small (think of tricking your brain into thinking you are eating more) and making a change to your eating schedule to closer increments will help keep you feeling full (WebMD, 2014).
Nothing in life seems to be worth it unless there is some kind of reward. We as humans do things that make us happy. The release of endorphins (hormones responsible for pleasure) is why we are motivated to do complete tasks and projects. This is also true when maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Reward your progress and meeting of your goals by going to a movie or getting a mani/pedi. It is important to keep in mind that several smaller rewards that you give yourself for meeting small goals, tend to work better than bigger rewards for difficult goals (WebMD, 2014).
Finally, keeping track of your progress will open your eyes to what you have accomplished (WebMD, 2014). There are several ways to do this, you can download a fitness app (for free!), make a daily or weekly progress chart, or just use old fashion note taking kept in a journal. Record what you are eating for your meals and what exercises you have done, including sets and repetitions. You might also want to record the amount of weight you are working with and see your gains over a set period of time
Working towards a healthy lifestyle is not something that can be achieved over night, it takes time. Even after you have achieved your weight loss goals you still need to maintain or all that hard work will have been for nothing. Set goals for maintaining your weight. The hard part is done, by the time you have reached your fitness and weight goals you should have established a regular routine, now all you have to do is stick with it. Good luck!
Here is the link to my article on Health and Fitness published on Medium.com:
Long-term Weight Loss: 5 Tips. (2014, October). Retrieved September 19, 2016 from www.m.webmd.com/diet/losing-weight-long-term
Laskowski, E.R., M.D. (2016, August 20). Fitness. Retrieved September 19, 2016, from http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/fitness/expert-answers/exercise/faq-20057916
Having a baby is a huge lifestyle change. Your normal routine gets turned completely upside down. You are not in control anymore, that sweet, cuddly ball of adorable is now the captain of this ship. Sleep becomes a thing of the past, eating at regular intervals is a treat, and exercise falls by the wayside, becoming a fond, distant memory.
You may think nothing will ever be the same; and you're completely right. That doesn't mean you can't adjust fire and move on. There just becomes a new normal. The first few months are always the most difficult, especially if you have a baby like mine. He's a bottomless pit. I swear I didn't think it was possible for someone so small to eat as much as this guy does. In the first couple months I felt as if I was breastfeeding 24/7.
So having a baby means a drastic change to the way you live, but it doesn't mean you have to completely let yourself go and be at the mercy of a tiny dictator. You can find a way to get back to healthy. It is important to follow a few rules when getting back into an exercise routine:
#1. Start out slowly. If you jump right back into your old routine, you will hurt yourself. That's a problem for a couple of reasons, A: you can't take care of a baby if you are hurt. B: you will be set back even farther in your quest to get healthy.
#2. Take advantage of the times when baby is sleeping or otherwise occupied (ie watching the birdies on his swing fly around while listening to some nature sounds). These distractions may not be long but you ca knock out some push ups or sit ups in those precious minutes.
#3. Get a stroller and make walking a big part of your work out. When the time comes, bump that walk up into a jog. Jogging strollers are great! You can run (or walk) over most terrain in them and not have to worry about tiny tot tipping over.
#4. If "the dictator" decides to change up his routine (and he will), don't get discouraged, adapt and overcome. BE FLEXIBLE!
Fitness and kids go hand in hand. There are exercises you can do using your baby as added weight. I am sure there are hundreds of Youtube videos demonstrating this. Check them out. Get creative.
Finally, always remember, it is not forever that baby will need your undivided attention. There will come a time when you will be able to go back at it hard. There will also be a time when you can turn playtime into workout time and they won't even know it. It is never too early to start teaching kiddos healthy habits.
I am not here to sell anything. I am not here to tell you I've got a magic pill, wrap, or diet that will help you lose a huge amount of weight in a ridiculously short amount of time. I know those things don't work. Depriving your body of nutrients is not how you lose weight. Juice cleanses are a way to make money and to be frank, make you poop, a lot. Think about it, juice is super high in sugar. Why would you want to consume only sugar and expect to lose weight? Your liver and kidneys already filter and "cleanse" your body of impurities, toxins, and other sludge, so why do you need something external to do what your body already does on its own? I'm not talking about the exceptions here. I understand the disease process. I get sometimes medicine is needed. But why would you put something in a healthy body when it doesn't need it? The expression "if it isn't broke, don't fix," fits this scenario.
My purpose is to maybe reach a couple people and remind them it's not that hard to get back to healthy. Lately we have tried a little too hard with all of these fads and have really forgot the simplicity of maintaining health. Eat right, exercise, and be positive. That is it. Everyone can fit in a little physical fitness everyday. We as a species have just become lazy. Really, think about it. We aren't being chased by predators that want to eat us on a daily basis like our distant ancestors. We aren't fighting for survival. We can literally press a button and have a whole host of things delivered to our homes and the only effort we have to put in is getting up off the couch and opening our front door to collect said items. What we are forgetting is that our bodies need specific things to stay healthy. Exercise is one of them.
I understand that trying a new weight loss product or diet is tempting. I, myself, have been desperate enough to believe in "miracle" products. Who wouldn't want to sprinkle some magic dust on a deep fried Twinkie and lose 20 pounds? It sounds amazing! Sadly, that doesn't even register on being logical.
I am on a journey. I am working at getting back to optimal health. I know there are going to be road blocks. I know this is going to challenge my sanity at times. It is a whole lifestyle change. I will be posting some recipes that are healthy and tasty. Those can be found on the HEALTHY EATS page. I will post my workouts that I do on a weekly basis. Sometimes there might be some tips on how to improve on aspects of fitness, for example, how to be a better runner. All things fitness will be on the CHALLENGE YOUR BODY page.
This is my challenge, this is my journey, one hundred percent. But if you want to join me, I would enjoy the company.